Don’t Worry, Be Happy

Why Worry About the Future

How to cope with anxiety when it won’t do you any good.

Fear is Rarely Rational

We all worry about the future. For instance, right now I am waiting on some contracts that could change my life.  It’s a bit nerve wracking. Or it should be. Mostly – I just keep plodding along hoping for the best not really spending much time thinking about it.

How do I manage to stay so calm? Well, practice.  Meditation helps, certainly. But I also understand that the best way to ensure a good future is for me to actively work towards it.

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Humanist Revolution in Business

Why compassion in business makes sense

The founding of a Humanistic Business Revolution

Humanist revolution in business

More and more research is showing that taking a humanistic approach to business is not only beneficial to the humans working in that business, but that it is also beneficial to the bottom line. So what is it going to take to create a revolution in the way we conduct business.


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Beaus and Bad Vibes

overweight drunk guys without an education don't make good beaus for women with PhDsBlue-collar beau and mom cliques

5/19/10

I realize I haven’t written a “my advice” article in a while.  Been busy and honestly, I haven’t read anything that made me mad.  Yesterday though, Dear Abby was WAY off.

The first question was from “It’s complicated” who is a divorced middle aged professional with a PhD who has been dating an overweight man with a drinking problem who never finished college for seven years. SEVEN!!! She enjoys his company and likes most of his friends but she is afraid he will say something boorish, show up drunk or otherwise embarrass her in front of her friends and peers. So she asked “whether there was something intrinsically wrong with me that I’m ashamed to have the man I love meet people with whom I work and socialize? Is there something wrong with the relationship?” 

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Hillary Likes McCain

Hillary likes McCainMcCain’s Blessing

3/12/08

Can someone stop Hillary before she gives McCain the keys to the white house?  I mean really.  Her statements praising McCain as a way to bash Obama were just really stupid.  I tried to find a kinder word to describe it, but really, all I came up with were worse then that.

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Hillary Likes McCain

Hillary likes McCainMcCain’s Blessing

3/12/08

Can someone stop Hillary before she gives McCain the keys to the white house?  I mean really.  Her statements praising McCain as a way to bash Obama were just really stupid.  I tried to find a kinder word to describe it, but really, all I came up with were worse then that.

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